We Don't Live Here Anymore

2004 "Why do we want what we can't have?"
6.3| 1h41m| R| en| More Info
Released: 20 January 2004 Released
Producted By: Warner Bros. Pictures
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Married couple Jack and Terry Linden are experiencing a difficult period in their relationship. When Jack decides to step outside the marriage, he becomes involved with Edith, who happens to be the wife of his best friend and colleague, Hank Evans. Learning of their partners' infidelity, Terry and Hank engage in their own extramarital affair together. Now, both marriages and friendships are on the brink of collapse.

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Drama, Romance

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John Curran

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Warner Bros. Pictures

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We Don't Live Here Anymore Audience Reviews

Platicsco Good story, Not enough for a whole film
Janae Milner Easily the biggest piece of Right wing non sense propaganda I ever saw.
Kien Navarro Exactly the movie you think it is, but not the movie you want it to be.
Zandra The movie turns out to be a little better than the average. Starting from a romantic formula often seen in the cinema, it ends in the most predictable (and somewhat bland) way.
Andres-Camara I have begun to see this film, without any hope, to see it. It has been a pleasant surprise, I will not say it is a film for posterity, but if it is a good movie. Also one of the things I like about her is that in her characters we see several types of people, not just a guy, the one who takes today and who is the good, but there are several types and none is good , Are signs of reality.It is independent cinema, would like to see in Spain independent cinema with this range of actors. They are all great. Seeing Naomi, I was surprised, I had not seen an actress cry for a long time and not cover her eyes, to see the whole face. I do not know if it will be your thing or it will be the direction of actors, but I was pleasantly surprised.Just start, there is cut, inside a car and use it to change sequence. I was very surprised, independent film is usually basically screenplay, not characterized by doing this kind of thing.Photography is better than the average of this type of cinema. It is not white, but it does accompany the film. It is not beautiful or perfect but if it is worked.Apart from those details commented before, the rest in terms of direction, is simple. A great direction of actors, but simple plans. It does not bore, except the moments in which the film is forgotten and is going to see planes of nature or becomes poetic. Those moments lower the film.Overall a nice movie.Spoiler:What I like about the actors is that they present us with several types of characters. The coward that although not happy, continues with his life. Also part of the liberals in love, but only until I suffer. Also the honest, I know I've done something wrong and I deal with it, for me.
scoup I was not repulsed by Laura Dern's clear case of anorexia.I wanted to punch her in her face. Her husband probably can not stand to look at her and the marriage is failing because who can respect a shrew like her. The scene where she is having sex with him is disgusting - all bones are showing and the sinewy muscles creep me out.It is very distracting to watch a movie when an actor's glaring personal problem overshadows all else. I spent most of the movie imagining her own personal self-loathing which has driven her to this place. Successful family and career, but something else below the surface. Directors should realize that it does not help a movie when they employ actors with problems. I would have made her eat each day in front of me before I began filming. I stopped watching her cable show for the same reason. I wish she gets helps.This is not a bashing post, but I am truly tired of watching movies and seeing this issue.So many people in the world who can't get 3 squares a day...what a lucky society we live in...all hail the pursuit of size zero.
secondtake We Don't Live Here Anymore (2004)What do you do when your marriage after ten or fifteen years isn't perfect, and maybe you, or your spouse, is thinking about having an affair? Wow, is this about as universal a theme as any? And set it in a very very nice but very normal semi-suburban contemporary American world (the fringes of an unnamed Washington State city), have two couples who are close friends all begin to doubt and melt down together. It's really a great starting point because it matters.The danger of such a story is that it won't seem original, or insightful, or right enough. Director John Curran is working with a pair of short stories by well known fiction writer Andre Dubus, and he seems to make something special happen out of nothing much. This interplay of four relatively normal people, each distinctive but all four belonging to a cross section of educated, white, upper middle-class America, is almost all of the movie. Their three children play a small but important role anchoring their emotional outbursts, keeping a brake on the breakdowns in a way that is all to familiar.All four of the main actors are cast perfectly. Mark Ruffalo (also an executive producer of the movie) and Laura Dern make one couple, Naomi Watts (a producer) and Peter Krause (still filming episodes as Nate in "Six Feet Under") form the other. They live in similar wood frame houses a short drive from each other. The two men are both English professors and they go running together. The two women don't seem to work at all, but each is raising one or two children, still young. It was once bliss, and should be still, but whatever it is that makes things go wrong in marriage has started to go wrong.It's a convenience of plot, almost the kind of strategy a playwright would use, that the mixed emotions of these four begin to cross among themselves. No one's world is that tightly limited, but it's okay for the movie because the point isn't about the situation being possible, as a whole, but about the individual reactions each has. The movie is slightly deliberate but never slow, as long as you remain curious about their motivations, their fears of getting caught (or wanting to get caught, or expecting to get caught). And their efforts to patch things up, to come to some higher love about it, not just for the "sake of the children" but for themselves.In some ways it's a perfect movie, except that it misses a kind of epiphany that this kind of effort really needs by the end. It does try, and the last few minutes of the movie are unexpected but quite reasonable. Everyone can quibble about whether he would do this or she would do that, based on how the characters are set up, and I certainly would--for example, the final action by Naomi Watts struck me as a great move by the writer, adding another level of depth to it all, but it wasn't quite supported enough by what happened earlier. I can't say more, but it's an example of both how the whole movie, first scene to last, ties together, and how it all could have been nuanced and emphasized in tiny little ways to give it even more credibility and incredibility (the first for conviction, the second for drama).Watts is probably the weakest link of the four, and Krause, as terrific as he is here, is given a personality of detachment and minor depression, so he is often almost invisible. Ruffalo matches Krause's calm, but he has an uncanny ability to make that permeate the screen. His face and movements seem to do nothing, literally, and yet he has a tone of voice, and just a bare change of expression, to be really effective. Dern is the most dynamic of the four, and she goes from one intensity to another, from quiet to vitriolic, in a commanding performance. I'd call this an ensemble cast (and it is, I know) but in fact most of the film shows only two actors at a time, in different combinations.It's an odd but perfect comparison to another film, released three weeks later in 2004, that deals with almost the same themes, "Closer," directed by Mike Nichols. I think "Closer" is astonishing, another set of four great actors in a mixed up set of emotions, but next to Curran's film, Nichols makes an extraverted, over the top, big personality experience out of it. It's a great ride, whatever the interactions of the two couples. In "We Don't Live Here Anymore" there is every effort to keep it small, local, regular, everyday. If that's it's strength, somehow, it's its limitation, too, because it demands a very high level of subtlety. Dramatics has to be replaced with perception, and with perfect writing.And it comes close, at times very close. Curran is no Mike Nichols, frankly (no one is), but he has pulled off (with the help of four great actors in good form) an excellent film. It will be too run of the mill for many viewers, but if you like soap opera drama raised to the level of a two hour, thoughtful movie, you'll really like it.
moonspinner55 This Larry Gross screenplay, adapted from two short stories by Andre Dubus, is all laid out for us like one bad novel. Two couples in a woodsy small town, ostensibly friends who share many times together, are seen to have cracks under their smiling facade: Mark Ruffalo and Laura Dern play a scruffy teacher and his scrappy, short-sighted wife who start bickering the minute company leaves; Peter Krause and Naomi Watts are the soulless marrieds who've stopped loving each other a long time ago, a fact reflected in their daughter's vacant sullenness. Despite droning dialogue which gets us (and the characters on-screen) absolutely nowhere, director John Curran has a very keen eye for detail, and some of the best moments in the movie are purely visual (Curran is helped by a sharp editor, who juices the monotonous scenario with flickers of thought and bits of different business all happening at once). Ruffalo (who was one of the producers on the film, as was Watts) gives us lots of shots of his hairy chest and photogenic faraway stare (implying that he's a struggling sensitive), but his character is nearly impossible to reach--it's no wonder Dern is so angry with him! Dern has the movie's worst dialogue (such as a caveat about sitting alone in a bar frequented by bag ladies), and she keeps getting in everyone's face, however she's a spark plug for drama and the movie would flag without her. Krause and Watts seem victimized by their own adultery and don't even have the passion to fight any longer, but his needling of others is interesting (I would have preferred a few scenes between he and Dern alone--their moments are kept completely off-screen). The film is fairly tasteful and involving, but I'm not sure how truthful it is, and the symbolism of the trains constantly passing through town are heavy handed reminders that we're all just passing through--presumably a leftover from the literary sources. ** from ****